Do I really have to tell my wife? Can’t I overcome this and just keep it to myself? Won’t telling her only cause more pain? Isn’t it better to spare her the hurt and trauma of what I’ve done? Most—if not all—porn addicts ask themselves some version of these questions. I know I did. I desperately wanted to make my lie true so my wife could continue believing I had been faithful throughout our entire relationship. That way, I would never have to tell her. There would be no reas